Grief without permissionThe Body Double for the Scapegoat Child
You sit by their bedside. Your chest feels tight and your hands tremble. No one sees your tears—you’re still the family scapegoat, locked out of any comfort.
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Hi. I'm your Body Double. I'm here to sit with every ache before the farewell. Tell me what you need in this moment.
Why You Need an AI Body Double
Anticipatory grief leaves you feeling unseen. The AI Body Double mirrors your presence, holds silent space for your pain, and never judges.
Judgment-Free Presence
No one will tell you to stop crying. Your AI Body Double stays with your feelings, no questions asked.
Silent Witness
It listens to every shaking breath, every tight chest squeeze. Your grief is validated in every pause.
Soothing Company
When family sidelines you, this companion stays. It offers calm company through the hardest moments.
The Weight of Anticipatory Grief
You feel the room spin when you hear about their condition worsening. Your stomach drops and your hands shake. You’re stuck between fearing loss and feeling guilty for that fear.
As the family scapegoat, you learned to swallow your sorrow. You weren't allowed to take up space. Practicing grief quietly became your only option.
Now grief arrives early. You dread the final goodbye yet can't stop the ache that gathers in your chest each morning. No one notices you before the storm hits.
An AI Body Double Holds Your Space
A body double stands beside you, sharing silence, mirroring your breath. That presence can ground you when your world tilts under grief.
The AI Body Double listens to your secret sorrow. It doesn't offer advice or platitudes. It reflects your experience back to you, making you feel seen.
By sitting with a steady, judgment-free companion, you learn that your tears matter. Over time, the ache eases as you claim permission to grieve.
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about your session
No. All sessions are encrypted. COPYMIND is 100% private. No human will ever read your words.
Not at all. Many find it easier to open up when there’s no judgment. This tool is a companion, not a replacement for people.
Guilt is normal. You deserve space to feel. Your AI Body Double honors every tear without shame.
This is not therapy. It’s a safe space to sit with grief. Consider therapy for deeper work, but use this companion anytime you need quiet support.
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